WEIGHT: 62 kg
Services: Cunnilingus, For family couples, Foot Worship, Rimming (receiving), Massage anti-stress
Oasis Aqualounge is known as a women-friendly sex-positive club, meaning visitor safety and comfortability is taken seriously. I was once a people-pleasing dork with a particularly loud shame wizard thanks, Big Mouth. But through university and doing stand-up, I began growing into a loud and proud lady, unafraid of embarrassment.
I made it my goal to start dismantling the shame that plagued me as a teen, beginning with the most tantalizing aspect: I went to my first sex-positive warehouse party at the Kinky Salon in London, England.
It was a magical place and it made me feel like a basement nerd who had discovered their first Comic-Con. Now that I live in Toronto, I want to find that same magic and help others find their inner freaks. Consent therefore plays a huge role at the club.
Before entering the venue, you must agree to the one ask rule: If you ask someone if they want to do something once, and they say no, you are not allowed to ask again. I went on two different nights to get the full experience: On the first and third Thursdays of the month, Oasis runs an event called First Taste, a comparatively quiet night where the staff provide a tour and answer questions for first-timers. This night is exclusively for women and couples, and on my tour, there were three couples, an older self-proclaimed cougar and me.
We visited each room of the converted 19th-century mansion, including a red orgy room, a performance area with a stage for shows and a s room called the Shagging Wagon, complete with half an old Volkswagon bug, which someone nearby noted was slightly more charming than it was practical.